For the last few weeks Abbey has told me that her mom has been sick in the mornings and at night and she throws up a lot. This past weekend, Abbey told me her mom's belly is getting bigger and they went to the dr. together to hear the heart beat.
Yep, my sister in law (SIL) is expecting. Abbey is going to be a big sister! My brother and SIL have not told us directly so I have not mentioned that I know either.
I am happy that Abbey will have a sibling (even though they will be 7 years apart). I'm finding it hard to be happy for my brother and SIL. They can barely take care of Abbey and they're having another kid?! It's hard for me to be excited for someone who's daughter was sick over the weekend and I was trying to call her at work and when she was able to call back her comment with regard to Abbey being sick was, 'what am I suppose to do about it?' Lovely isn't she?
I know life isn't fair and I shouldn't judge. I will just have to be happy that I am going to have two new nieces or nephews this year (my sister is due in July and I don't know when my SIL is due, but I'm assuming in the fall).
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Oh Hannah you are such a good soul!! I'm praying for you! You are such a good influence on Abbey and you will be for the next little one too. Even if her momma doesn't appreciate the gift she has been given, you certainly will. Good Luck. Sending you lots and lots of (((HUGS)))
Oh Hannah, Im sorry you are having to battle with these feelings--I know how much you care for Abbey, so know you will remain happy for her. But I know its a mental battle for you to show joy to your SIL. Sending you strength! Big hugs!
Uhhggg. At first i thought what a terrible way to find out, but on second thought, I think Abbey was the best eprson to hear it from, considering how much you love her. I am glad you can see beyond the unfairness and be happy for Abbey. You are a much nicer person than me. Congrats on becoming an auntie again (soon). Keep up that positive and graceful disposition of yours.
I'm glad you are happy for Abbey. But I completely understand how you feel about your brother and sister in law. Life can be so unfair!
I love your cheeful disposition!
My first thought was, "Two nieces for you to adore and love!" And then I felt your frustration over it being your SIL. All I can say is that I am so glad that little baby will have you in its life to make up for where it's parents lack. Abbey is so blessed beyond words that you and Steve have stepped up and are there for her in the capacity you are.
I wish with all of my heart that it was you who is pregnant. I am just glad that you will still be in this child's life.
I'm so sorry! This has to be really difficult. I can't believe her mom said that when she was sick! Poor little thing. She's lucky to have you. Hugs to you as you make your way through this tough situation.
Wow, can't believe your SIL. I totally get the feelings that you're going through. I think the same each and every time I spend time with my nieces and think about their absentee mother. It just doesn't seem fair hey? Sending you big hugs.
Oh Hannah, I am so sorry for what you're dealing with. Sometimes life just doesn't seem fair does it.
Sending you strength, prayers, and hugs!
xoxo
Sweetie, it's like you have been given the possibility of raising children though. And you are ding an amazing job. I won't comment on your SIL attitude, I'm sure you know what I'm thinking!
Hannah, I'm so so sorry! I can imagine the feelings you are feeling right now. I haven't had them towards family, but others. I know how hard it is for me and I'm so sorry you have to strggle with the vast range of emotions.
You're so good to Abbey and will be just as wonderful with this new little bundle of joy. I pray you find strength and comfort.
Thinking of you!
Oh, I understand how you feel! Sending you hugs! And thank you so much for that sweet comment on my blog. It's so true - "be still and know."
HUGS!
Oh sweetie, I am so sorry. What a difficult way to find out this news. (((hugs)))
(((hugs)))) I know it doesn't make it better for you and your DH but hugs anyways!
I'm sorry that you had to hear that news, but you'll have another person to love on. And take some comfort in the fact that those children when they are grown will have their own thoughts and opinions and they will know who truly loved them, took care of them, taught them, comforted them and were ALWAYS there for them. If you look at it that way it makes you feel a little bad for your brother and SIL...as you'll always have the kids' love and trust, but their parents might wake up one day and wonder why they don't.....
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