I had my 20 week appt last Friday. We took Matthew so he could see baby sister. Yeah, he was over it in like 2 minutes! Ha.
The appointment started out fine. The tech measured my cervix and took measurements of baby. Baby girl was faced down and did NOT want to turn over. The tech kept poking my belly, but baby was not phased by it at all.
The tech left and the dr came in. That's when everything kind of changed.
The dr said my cervix had shortened and they would have to go in and sew it up (cervical cerclage). He showed me the ultrasound picture where we could clearly see baby's foot kicking at it. (Baby girl was trying to kick her way out!).
I was like, so when do I have to get the surgery done? He said, TODAY! It was already 3 pm on a Friday afternoon! Alrighty then. So we had to rush to my mom's house and drop off Matthew, then rush to the hospital.
The surgery was scheduled for around 6 pm. We got there and went thru registration and ended up in Pre-Op. They had me change into the hospital gown and the nurses were asking me a million questions. Then they tried to put in an IV and it hurt SO bad. After the 4th attempt I was crying!! It really hurt like a mofo!
The second nurse tried a fith time and the anestesiologist came in and got it right away. So six pokes later, they finally got an IV in!
And then it was on to the Operating room where they had to do the spinal anestesia! Ouch!!
The surgery took about 20 mins and recovery was about 5 hours! I couldn't get released until the anestesia wore off. Finally at 12:30 AM, we were able to go home.
I was put on modified bedrest so the whole weekend was spent resting on the couch. I have a follow up appt Friday with the dr.
I am praying that baby will keep growing and will stay put!
I'm not one for just sitting around so this modified bed rest is hard for a mover and shaker like myself! But of course, I will do what is required for the safety of my baby!
My husband has been such a trooper. He has done so much for our family. I am learning that I have to let go of some of the little things (like if the house is a mess). He tries so hard to do everything that NEEDS to be done. Everything else will just have to wait. Love him!